Detoxing Modern Feminism
Evolutionary Feminism is a new theory for promoting human flourishing by bringing ancestral wisdom to many aspects of modern society, including economic structures, domestic environments, familial organization, intersexual power dynamics, and romantic relationships.
It differs from conventional feminism in several key ways:
- Evolutionary Feminism does not assign blame to men for oppressing or disempowering women.
It recognizes that women are already in possession of all their power (much of which is their sexual power) and simply need to understand how to embrace and utilize it. It recognizes that men actually feel equally disempowered as women in the current environment and deserve equal help in reclaiming their personal agency.
- Evolutionary Feminism does not assume that the best way forward is to treat women identically to men.
It recognizes that masculinity and femininity are complementary poles on a continuous spectrum, each representing valuable strengths. With this awareness, we can choose where we want to manifest ourselves on this spectrum at any time to effect change in the world. It clarifies that there are no “wrong” choices in this, but that the highest potency typically occurs when biological sex, gender identification, and masculine/feminine expression are in alignment with one another. Furthermore, the maximum energy for positive change is created when healthy expressions of the opposite poles of masculine & feminine energy are brought together in harmony.
- Evolutionary Feminism does not rely on the status quo as the primary reference point to compare our options.
It recognizes that the steps we took to bring civilization to its current point were choices, not inevitabilities, and they have not served us ideally. Looking back to earlier times (before the agricultural revolution) can help us determine what would be more effective strategies for the modern world. This means we need to rethink identities, relationships, communities, families, homes, and more, to find ways to do better at each of them.
Evolutionary Feminism asserts that, for women to reclaim their power and independence, we must use an evolutionary lens to reconsider all of how we have structured our domestic environments, defined our families, and represented the economic value of individual contributions to society in the modern world.
We believe that, like our tribal ancestors, women are meant to live in close networks with other women for connection, support, and the sharing of domestic labor and childcare. We believe this is the basis for building healthy, happy, strong individuals and communities.
We believe that children should have a much larger support network than two biological parents. To that end, children should primarily be considered legal dependents of their mother, who invites the investment of other members of her community, both women and men. Rather than consider men legally responsible for the children they happened to provide the genes for, instead, men should provide present-term support for the women they want to spend time with.
This leads to a representation of domestic labor and childcare with real monetary consideration. Instead of agreeing in advance to relationship outcomes and paternal support, we focus on exchange of value in an ongoing, present tense. By supporting women’s communities (instead of focusing on marriage, monogamy, and cohabitation), men can gain favor with these sexually liberated women who possess the tremendous advantage that their domestic stability no longer depends on their individual sexual choices.
Read about this concept in more detail here: Tribal Living in the Modern World